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CLOSING ENTRY: Retaliate! Exact revenge! Get even!

March 13, 2024

Nah.

Warren Cooper
For NJBIZ

 

Reading unflattering media reports about you or about a company/institution you represent can be frustrating and painful – especially if you feel the coverage is undeserved, biased or simply inaccurate. You may believe the reports threaten your hard-earned stellar reputation, that your brand has been tarnished, that the negative impact on your credibility (or sales or donations or recruitment or social relations, etc.) could be profound – possibly irreversibly so.

Clients who have been targets of negative news reports want them removed or corrected. They often also want revenge. Thinking themselves victims, they want to punish those who victimized them. Admittedly, when you feel wronged, the impulse to retaliate can be strong.

Recently, members of a New Jersey borough council sought to punish a local newspaper that had published unflattering stories about them. The paper happened to be the municipality’s “official” newspaper, the one designated as the publishing site for public notices (meeting dates and times, proposed ordinances, rabies clinics, sales of municipal property, etc.) The council voted – not unanimously – to place those notices elsewhere, thereby denying the paper the publication fees. These fees are a significant source of newspaper revenue, especially for small local weeklies, but the council felt using a financial stick to retaliate against what it saw as ill treatment was justified.

Individuals and entities maligned in the media may want to shut off the flow of advertising dollars, refuse interview requests, plot retaliatory letter-to-the-editor writing campaigns, seek to have reporters (and sometimes, editors) fired. We’ve seen college leaders, hospital executives, members of Fortune 500 C-Suites, school board presidents, high profile athletes and others want to go down the revenge trail.

 

We tell them that it’s a bad idea. Here are some reasons why.

Publication fees, advertising and sponsorships are obviously important to publishers and owners but legitimate media outlets – even small, local ones – aim to wall-off the advertising/marketing department from editorial (the news department) to avoid allegations of bias. True, some walls are less formidable than others, but the intent is there. Editors and publishers always claim that advertising dollars don’t influence news coverage.

That means punishing the paper through its ad department won’t change the tone of editorial coverage. If anything, spite might make it worse.

It certainly won’t stop the outlet from reporting about you if you do something newsworthy. The paper serves the interest of its readers, not yours or those of your organization. And every news outlet knows the public relishes reports of leaders acting badly. (As consumers of news, we all know this, don’t we?)

Nothing smacks of a failure of leadership more than pettiness. The news outlet will almost certainly report your attempt to influence coverage, and the public will similarly recognize it as a desperate attempt to quash reports of bad behavior.

 

So, what’s a “victim” of negative reporting to do?

The obvious answer is to behave properly to begin with … although victims rarely feel their behavior warranted such terrible coverage in the first place. (My favorite: “So-and-so did the same thing three months ago and those bastards never wrote a word about it.” Try convincing a trooper to not cite you for speeding because they didn’t ticket the driver who passed you.)

While getting revenge is almost always the wrong goal, and usually unattainable, trying to set the record straight is a reasonable objective. Though rarely easy — and too often downright impossible, it’s worth a try.

Certainly, factual errors in the coverage should be corrected — but seek corrections without rancor. Imagine yourself to be the adult in the room.

 

Truth is, you’re unlikely to be successful anyway. Here are some hard truths.

Unless you can demonstrate that the news account has obvious, clear and indisputable factual errors (a misspelled name, for example), the reporter and her editor will demur.

If the news account quotes someone saying something bad about you, or attributes a demonstrably false statement to someone else, the reporter and her editor may still refuse to correct it because “they” didn’t say it, they just accurately reported someone else said it.

Here’s an insider’s secret: Unless the story has “legs,” which is to say, the issue/behavior is likely to continue generating heightened public interest or ongoing furor, the news cycle has already moved on. Simply ignore it and go back to doing the great things you’re known for. That’s often hard to do, but it’s typically the best approach.

The opposite is equally true. If you get the correction made, the outlet will promote the “updated” story. People who read the story the first time won’t reread it, but people who missed it the first time will. Congratulations. You’re giving the bad news a new audience.

Instead, focus on what you can achieve. Often that means establishing (or repairing) a relationship with reporters and outlets you rely on, or fear, for coverage. Have coffee – don’t offer to buy, that won’t fly – and get to know the journalist a little and vice versa. Perhaps you can help advance her reporting with other stories she’s working on, providing a connection or information that isn’t confidential. Your goal is to have the reporter view you as a reliable, trusted source and not as an obstacle to her ability to inform the readers.

Reporters aren’t your enemy. They’re just doing their job. Knowing how to work with the media can help you avoid the kind of reporting that spurs desire for revenge in the first place.

Warren Cooper is senior director at Kessler PR Group, which specializes in crisis communications, reputation management, litigation support and media relations.

This article was previously published on njbiz.com. To view it on that site, please click here.

Kessler PR Group is a leading public relations firm specializing in crisis communications, reputation management, litigation support and media relations. To learn more, please visit https://kesslerpr.com, call 908-322-1100 or email info@kesslerpr.com.

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Early in her career, Karen served as the Vice President of Corporate Communications for the American Stock Exchange. She was the Director of Transition for New Jersey Governor-Elect Jim Florio and the first female commissioner of the New Jersey Sports and Exposition Authority. She earned an AB in economics from Vassar College.

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Karen regularly counsels clients on sensitive issues including regulatory inquiries, personnel matters, business practices and criminal and civil litigation. She represents high profile celebrities and entities in the USA, Europe and the Middle East. She is known for her discretion, her integrity, and her decades-long relationships with media leaders.

Karen is a frequent keynote speaker on topics ranging from reputation, career, leadership and moving beyond cancel culture. A reliably provocative commenter on reputation issues for print and broadcast, Karen has served as an on-air reputation consultant to the “NBC TODAY SHOW” and others. Her work has been the basis of both feature and documentary films.

Karen has served on Boards of Directors of public companies and leading not-for-profits in finance, health care and education. She and her work have received dozens of awards from local, regional and national organizations.

Early in her career, Karen served as the Vice President of Corporate Communications for the American Stock Exchange. She was the Director of Transition for New Jersey Governor-Elect Jim Florio and the first female commissioner of the New Jersey Sports and Exposition Authority. She earned an AB in economics from Vassar College.

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Warren provides strategic communication counsel and litigation support to clients facing personal or institutional crises.

He has provided media training to clients facing the glare of public scrutiny; written political speeches, university commencement addresses, and policy presentations for a variety of speakers and audiences; drafted media statements for corporate and outside counsel to align with and bolster litigation strategy and crafted traditional and social media messaging to support political and policy campaigns.

In advising clients, Warren draws on his years as an investigative reporter, as well as his own experience handling media as a New Jersey mayor and school board president. Warren earned a doctoral degree in psychology at Rutgers University and a BA in English at Binghamton University. He has taught psychology at Rutgers and journalism and communications at Raritan Valley Community College.

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Warren provides strategic communication counsel and litigation support to clients facing personal or institutional crises.

He has provided media training to clients facing the glare of public scrutiny; written political speeches, university commencement addresses, and policy presentations for a variety of speakers and audiences; drafted media statements for corporate and outside counsel to align with and bolster litigation strategy and crafted traditional and social media messaging to support political and policy campaigns.

In advising clients, Warren draws on his years as an investigative reporter, as well as his own experience handling media as a New Jersey mayor and school board president. Warren earned a doctoral degree in psychology at Rutgers University and a BA in English at Binghamton University. He has taught psychology at Rutgers and journalism and communications at Raritan Valley Community College.

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Donna seeks to boost client trust and confidence, approaching business operations to help clients achieve their reputational goals. Donna’s focus on enhancing the client experience throughout her career has enabled her to use data collection, assessment and analysis to recommend and execute process improvements at a New Jersey energy company and cultivate partnerships for an international, enterprise-level staffing solutions company.

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As the initial point of contact for Kessler PR clients, Donna Elliott draws on her background as a broadcast news writer, editor, and producer for a New Jersey-based media company to conduct client research with confidentiality and sensitivity. Her earlier work supporting C-suite executives enables her to develop strong relationships with attorneys, their clients and other engaged stakeholders, coordinating calendars and managing onsite, remote and hybrid meetings.

Donna seeks to boost client trust and confidence, approaching business operations to help clients achieve their reputational goals. Donna’s focus on enhancing the client experience throughout her career has enabled her to use data collection, assessment and analysis to recommend and execute process improvements at a New Jersey energy company and cultivate partnerships for an international, enterprise-level staffing solutions company.

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In addition to helping clients generate greater public awareness and visibility for their brand, Erin often works with clients who seek to avoid or respond to reputational fallout when faced with media or public scrutiny. She regularly provides public relations and litigation support for clients engaged in complex matters including, but not limited to personnel issues, leadership transitions, mergers, acquisitions, and bankruptcies.

Prior to joining Kessler PR Group, Erin served as communications director and media spokesperson for a prominent religious nonprofit organization in Central New Jersey.

Early in her career, Erin worked for a public and government relations firm in Trenton, where she led multiple strategic public relations, marketing and grassroots campaigns, special events, and communications initiatives for corporate, small business, New Jersey Department of State and not-for-profit clients. Erin earned her BA in Communications at Rider University.

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Erin develops and executes customized communication strategies for clients. She has represented many high-profile individuals and organizations during her career and has extensive experience in working with leaders of education, healthcare, not-for-profit, and religious organizations.

In addition to helping clients generate greater public awareness and visibility for their brand, Erin often works with clients who seek to avoid or respond to reputational fallout when faced with media or public scrutiny. She regularly provides public relations and litigation support for clients engaged in complex matters including, but not limited to personnel issues, leadership transitions, mergers, acquisitions, and bankruptcies.

Prior to joining Kessler PR Group, Erin served as communications director and media spokesperson for a prominent religious nonprofit organization in Central New Jersey.

Early in her career, Erin worked for a public and government relations firm in Trenton, where she led multiple strategic public relations, marketing and grassroots campaigns, special events, and communications initiatives for corporate, small business, New Jersey Department of State and not-for-profit clients. Erin earned her BA in Communications at Rider University.

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Kevin provides communications guidance and messaging support to a wide variety of clients, including those in the healthcare field, construction professionals, and the entertainment industry. He has overseen event planning and helped produce major televised events.

Prior to joining Kessler PR Group Kevin served as public relations manager for a major New Jersey health system, directed the New Jersey Department of Transportation’s Office of Community and Constituent Services, and served as chief of staff for state elected officials in New Jersey’s 13th Legislative District.

Kevin’s legal and legislative background combined with his transportation and health care experience make him uniquely qualified to service a wide variety of clients. He has worked on high profile issues throughout the NY/NJ region and provided messaging strategies to governors, legislative leaders, and corporate executives.

Kevin earned his BA from the University of Delaware and his JD from Hofstra University School of Law.

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Kevin provides communications guidance and messaging support to a wide variety of clients, including those in the healthcare field, construction professionals, and the entertainment industry. He has overseen event planning and helped produce major televised events.

Prior to joining Kessler PR Group Kevin served as public relations manager for a major New Jersey health system, directed the New Jersey Department of Transportation’s Office of Community and Constituent Services, and served as chief of staff for state elected officials in New Jersey’s 13th Legislative District.

Kevin’s legal and legislative background combined with his transportation and health care experience make him uniquely qualified to service a wide variety of clients. He has worked on high profile issues throughout the NY/NJ region and provided messaging strategies to governors, legislative leaders, and corporate executives.

Kevin earned his BA from the University of Delaware and his JD from Hofstra University School of Law.

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Andria’s background and experience as a network television technician and editor for ABC and CBS included work on the Republican and Democratic national conventions, the Superbowl, Olympic Games, the CBS Evening News, the Detroit Grand Prix, NFL Football and NCAA Basketball to name a few. In addition, Lykogiannis owned and operated a successful franchise restaurant and catering business.

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Andria Lykogiannis serves as principal client liaison, supporting client research and managing the scheduling, coordination and implementation of multiple projects. Her background in broadcast media production and business management enhances the critical support for client services aimed at achieving reputational goals.

Andria’s background and experience as a network television technician and editor for ABC and CBS included work on the Republican and Democratic national conventions, the Superbowl, Olympic Games, the CBS Evening News, the Detroit Grand Prix, NFL Football and NCAA Basketball to name a few. In addition, Lykogiannis owned and operated a successful franchise restaurant and catering business.

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Brian utilizes his legal experience to provide strategic crisis communications counsel and litigation support to clients confronted with complex and high-profile matters. He has developed successful communications strategies for corporations; not-for-profits; C-suite executive; professional sports teams, and educational institutions, and has drafted crisis communications plans for large hospital networks and universities.

Brian practiced law before joining Kessler PR Group. He has defended insurers and corporations in employment and mass tort cases, as well law firms and hospitals in legal and medical malpractice actions. Brian’s legal background, robust research skills, and strong writing underpin Kessler’s work on behalf of clients who seek to establish themselves as industry thought leaders or transform and enhance their public image.

Brian earned his JD at Seton Hall University School of Law and his BA in Law & Policy at Dickinson College.

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Brian McDonough, Esq.

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Brian utilizes his legal experience to provide strategic crisis communications counsel and litigation support to clients confronted with complex and high-profile matters. He has developed successful communications strategies for corporations; not-for-profits; C-suite executive; professional sports teams, and educational institutions, and has drafted crisis communications plans for large hospital networks and universities.

Brian practiced law before joining Kessler PR Group. He has defended insurers and corporations in employment and mass tort cases, as well law firms and hospitals in legal and medical malpractice actions. Brian’s legal background, robust research skills, and strong writing underpin Kessler’s work on behalf of clients who seek to establish themselves as industry thought leaders or transform and enhance their public image.

Brian earned his JD at Seton Hall University School of Law and his BA in Law & Policy at Dickinson College.

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Allison utilizes her background in journalism to counsel clients through a variety of media-related needs. She provides media training, conducts research, and drafts statements and speeches for organizations to lean on during times of crisis. Additionally, Allison designs graphics and websites for our clients to help raise awareness of their brands.

Prior to joining Kessler PR Group, Allison served as the senior reporter for a local newspaper in Monmouth County. There, she maintained relationships with community and political leaders and produced balanced articles by maintaining sources with confidentiality and respect.

Earlier in her career, Allison worked on public relations campaigns for New Jersey-based nonprofits and helped promote small businesses in her community. She earned a Bachelor of Arts degree in Communications at Monmouth University.

Allison Perrine

Allison Perrine Bio

aperrine@kesslerpr.com

Allison utilizes her background in journalism to counsel clients through a variety of media-related needs. She provides media training, conducts research, and drafts statements and speeches for organizations to lean on during times of crisis. Additionally, Allison designs graphics and websites for our clients to help raise awareness of their brands.

Prior to joining Kessler PR Group, Allison served as the senior reporter for a local newspaper in Monmouth County. There, she maintained relationships with community and political leaders and produced balanced articles by maintaining sources with confidentiality and respect.

Earlier in her career, Allison worked on public relations campaigns for New Jersey-based nonprofits and helped promote small businesses in her community. She earned a Bachelor of Arts degree in Communications at Monmouth University.