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Workplace holiday party tips to avoid HR, PR crises

January 21, 2026

This article by Warren Cooper was previously published in NJBIZ. To view it on that site, please click here.

 

The basics:

  • Crisis communications expert warns holiday parties often spark HR and legal issues
  • Offers tips to help companies avoid HR complaints and possible litigation
  • Employers should reinforce conduct, social media and reporting policies
  • Monitoring events in real time can reduce harassment, misconduct and safety risks

 

‘Tis the season to be jolly at workplace holiday parties.

The turn of the year can be a busy time for crisis communications consultants – we can reliably anticipate bad behavior at holiday parties to generate business for us in the New Year.

Despite the best efforts of our attorney friends who practice labor and employment law to regularly remind clients about this, and despite industry leaders acknowledging that end-of-the-year gatherings often result in HR complaints and even litigation, management all too rarely bakes protections against such outcomes into holiday party plans.

 

Be of good (well-behaved) cheer

Here are a few communication tips to help your employees joyously celebrate another successful year without damaging their own reputations, let alone those of the company and its leadership.

Remind staff that the party is a workplace event, even if it’s not held during working hours or at the worksite. While a company dress code may be set aside, and alcoholic beverages served, other social behavior policies (and be specific if you think they need to be named) are not relaxed. It’s always worth reminding attendees that acts of discrimination, harassment, bullying, etc. are never acceptable.

Include discussion of social media policies before, during and after the party. Party photos, videos and other recordings will certainly find their way online, making employee or management misbehavior public in ways that can go viral. Posts that identify individuals or the company can potentially cause shame, impact reputations, and even lead to lawsuits. If your company doesn’t have a robust social media policy, it’s still worth reminding employees to be mindful and discreet. (Bonus tip: If you don’t have one, make drafting and adopting such a policy in the coming year a priority.)

Include discussion of social media policies before, during and after the party.

Make it clear that attendance at the party isn’t mandatory. Employees should understand that the invitation is just an invitation, not a demand, and that there are no consequences should they choose not to (or be unable to) attend. Some employees may be uncomfortable socializing with work colleagues, receive another invitation they prefer, or have a prior obligation. Remind employees that attendance is voluntary and they should not treat colleagues differently because they did or did not participate.

During planning, employers should be alert for unintentional bias in determining the time, place, refreshments and entertainment. Some employees may have standing obligations that restrict attendance or make it impossible. Similarly, seek to make accommodations for individuals with differing abilities and diets. And be mindful that cultures and religions broadly celebrate the season differently – sometimes not at all.

At the event itself, be on alert for unacceptable behavior so it can be managed in real time. Workplace parties are all about having fun. Even if alcohol isn’t served, regular inhibitions tend to be suspended and conditions are ripe for unwelcome comments, inappropriate touching, sexualized behavior, harassment, and – of course – unauthorized alcohol and substance use. Employees expect leadership to discreetly monitor and control staff behavior during the event, but leaders themselves can behave problematically.

Be on alert for unacceptable behavior so it can be managed in real time.

Confirm that employees know how to report it. Employees need to feel empowered to bring to the hosts’ attention any policy lapse they observe. That means escalation protocols need to be part of the policy. HR is the obvious recipient of such reports, but if HR is the culprit – or your company doesn’t have an HR department – it should be clear who’s to receive the information and who is expected to respond. Make sure to communicate this prior to the gathering.

Prioritize health and safety. Assess the venue for potential physical threats: improperly functioning doors, wet bathroom floors, etc. If the company provides the alcohol, consider hiring a bartender to serve the drinks. A hired bartender (rather than a staff volunteer) can anticipate unacceptable levels of inebriation and alert management early on. You may also want to make a game of collecting car keys at the door for use as raffle tickets for prizes so you can ensure that all guests can get home safely.

Take every opportunity to talk about it. As with so many things, communication is key. Clearly set expectations for good behavior early on and invite dialog about what’s acceptable and what’s not. In some cases, pre-holiday HR training can be scheduled to remind staff how to safely and discreetly report inappropriate behavior and speech, and to whom. In many instances, a post-party review can be helpful to identify avoidable problems next year.

Some of these conversations can be difficult, but the consequences of looking the other way can be much worse … for employees, for leadership, and for the company itself. Following these tips – and common sense – can help ensure your end-of-the-year celebration is memorable — for the right reasons. Bonus: You won’t spend New Year’s Day adding us to your speed dial.

 

Warren Cooper is senior director at Kessler PR Group, a leading public relations firm specializing in crisis communications, reputation management, litigation support and media relations.

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Karen regularly counsels clients on sensitive issues including regulatory inquiries, personnel matters, business practices and criminal and civil litigation. She represents high profile celebrities and entities in the USA, Europe and the Middle East. She is known for her discretion, her integrity, and her decades-long relationships with media leaders.

Karen is a frequent keynote speaker on topics ranging from reputation, career, leadership and moving beyond cancel culture. A reliably provocative commenter on reputation issues for print and broadcast, Karen has served as an on-air reputation consultant to the “NBC TODAY SHOW” and others. Her work has been the basis of both feature and documentary films.

Karen has served on Boards of Directors of public companies and leading not-for-profits in finance, health care and education. She and her work have received dozens of awards from local, regional and national organizations.

Early in her career, Karen served as the Vice President of Corporate Communications for the American Stock Exchange. She was the Director of Transition for New Jersey Governor-Elect Jim Florio and the first female commissioner of the New Jersey Sports and Exposition Authority. She earned an AB in economics from Vassar College.

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He previously managed teams of court reporters in several states and, as a reporter, launched Law360’s New Jersey wire in 2012, covering everything from court hearings to public policy. He began his journalism career as a reporter for news dailies such as the Gloucester County Times and the Courier News/MyCentralJersey.com, among others.

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Marty helps clients advance their communications goals and safeguard their reputations by applying his decades of experience as a reporter and newsroom leader.

Marty was most recently managing editor for business of law and legal ethics at Law360, among the most highly regarded legal journals in the country.

In 2021, he spearheaded the launch of Law360 Pulse, a standalone website focused on the inner workings of law firms and in-house legal departments.
Marty’s deep knowledge of law firms and the courts alongside his proven track record as a project manager and problem solver make him an ideal partner for companies, individuals and institutions who may face media scrutiny.

He previously managed teams of court reporters in several states and, as a reporter, launched Law360’s New Jersey wire in 2012, covering everything from court hearings to public policy. He began his journalism career as a reporter for news dailies such as the Gloucester County Times and the Courier News/MyCentralJersey.com, among others.

Marty holds a bachelor’s degree in journalism and history from Rutgers University.

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Warren provides strategic communication counsel and litigation support to clients facing personal or institutional crises.

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In advising clients, Warren draws on his years as an investigative reporter, as well as his own experience handling media as a New Jersey mayor and school board president. Warren earned a doctoral degree in psychology at Rutgers University and a BA in English at Binghamton University. He has taught psychology at Rutgers and journalism and communications at Raritan Valley Community College.

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Warren provides strategic communication counsel and litigation support to clients facing personal or institutional crises.

He has provided media training to clients facing the glare of public scrutiny; written political speeches, university commencement addresses, and policy presentations for a variety of speakers and audiences; drafted media statements for corporate and outside counsel to align with and bolster litigation strategy and crafted traditional and social media messaging to support political and policy campaigns.

In advising clients, Warren draws on his years as an investigative reporter, as well as his own experience handling media as a New Jersey mayor and school board president. Warren earned a doctoral degree in psychology at Rutgers University and a BA in English at Binghamton University. He has taught psychology at Rutgers and journalism and communications at Raritan Valley Community College.

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Prior to joining Kessler PR Group, Georgi served as the associate director of communications and media relations for Barnard College at Columbia University, where she crafted and distributed messages for internal and external audiences in times of local and national crises.

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Georgi supports clients in their strategic communications and reputational needs as they navigate difficult and sensitive situations by relying on her years of experience as an internal and external communications professional. She applies her understanding of audience engagement and reputation management as a guide for anticipating risks across all stakeholder-facing communications.

Prior to joining Kessler PR Group, Georgi served as the associate director of communications and media relations for Barnard College at Columbia University, where she crafted and distributed messages for internal and external audiences in times of local and national crises.

Earlier in her career, Georgi worked as a social media producer and assignment editor on the assignment desks of local and national news organizations. She has also served as a social media manager and volunteer for animal rescues in the tri-state area.

Georgi holds a BA in Communications from Salve Regina University in Newport, Rhode Island.

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Georgi supports clients in their strategic communications and reputational needs as they navigate difficult and sensitive situations by relying on her years of experience as an internal and external communications professional. She applies her understanding of audience engagement and reputation management as a guide for anticipating risks across all stakeholder-facing communications.

Prior to joining Kessler PR Group, Georgi served as the associate director of communications and media relations for Barnard College at Columbia University, where she crafted and distributed messages for internal and external audiences in times of local and national crises.

Earlier in her career, Georgi worked as a social media producer and assignment editor on the assignment desks of local and national news organizations. She has also served as a social media manager and volunteer for animal rescues in the tri-state area.

Georgi holds a BA in Communications from Salve Regina University in Newport, Rhode Island.

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Donna holds a BA in Communications from Monmouth University.

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As the initial point of contact for Kessler PR clients, Donna Elliott draws on her background as a broadcast news writer, editor, and producer for a New Jersey-based media company to conduct client research with confidentiality and sensitivity. Her earlier work supporting C-suite executives enables her to develop strong relationships with attorneys, their clients and other engaged stakeholders, coordinating calendars and managing onsite, remote and hybrid meetings.

Donna seeks to boost client trust and confidence, approaching business operations to help clients achieve their reputational goals. Donna’s focus on enhancing the client experience throughout her career has enabled her to use data collection, assessment and analysis to recommend and execute process improvements at a New Jersey energy company and cultivate partnerships for an international, enterprise-level staffing solutions company.

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Prior to joining Kessler PR Group, Erin served as communications director and media spokesperson for a prominent religious nonprofit organization in Central New Jersey.

Early in her career, Erin worked for a public and government relations firm in Trenton, where she led multiple strategic public relations, marketing and grassroots campaigns, special events, and communications initiatives for corporate, small business, New Jersey Department of State and not-for-profit clients. Erin earned her BA in Communications at Rider University.

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Erin develops and executes customized communication strategies for clients. She has represented many high-profile individuals and organizations during her career and has extensive experience in working with leaders of education, healthcare, not-for-profit, and religious organizations.

In addition to helping clients generate greater public awareness and visibility for their brand, Erin often works with clients who seek to avoid or respond to reputational fallout when faced with media or public scrutiny. She regularly provides public relations and litigation support for clients engaged in complex matters including, but not limited to personnel issues, leadership transitions, mergers, acquisitions, and bankruptcies.

Prior to joining Kessler PR Group, Erin served as communications director and media spokesperson for a prominent religious nonprofit organization in Central New Jersey.

Early in her career, Erin worked for a public and government relations firm in Trenton, where she led multiple strategic public relations, marketing and grassroots campaigns, special events, and communications initiatives for corporate, small business, New Jersey Department of State and not-for-profit clients. Erin earned her BA in Communications at Rider University.

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Brian utilizes his legal experience to provide strategic crisis communications counsel and litigation support to clients confronted with complex and high-profile matters. He has developed successful communications strategies for corporations; not-for-profits; C-suite executive; professional sports teams, and educational institutions, and has drafted crisis communications plans for large hospital networks and universities.

Brian practiced law before joining Kessler PR Group. He has defended insurers and corporations in employment and mass tort cases, as well law firms and hospitals in legal and medical malpractice actions. Brian’s legal background, robust research skills, and strong writing underpin Kessler’s work on behalf of clients who seek to establish themselves as industry thought leaders or transform and enhance their public image.

Brian earned his JD at Seton Hall University School of Law and his BA in Law & Policy at Dickinson College.

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Brian utilizes his legal experience to provide strategic crisis communications counsel and litigation support to clients confronted with complex and high-profile matters. He has developed successful communications strategies for corporations; not-for-profits; C-suite executive; professional sports teams, and educational institutions, and has drafted crisis communications plans for large hospital networks and universities.

Brian practiced law before joining Kessler PR Group. He has defended insurers and corporations in employment and mass tort cases, as well law firms and hospitals in legal and medical malpractice actions. Brian’s legal background, robust research skills, and strong writing underpin Kessler’s work on behalf of clients who seek to establish themselves as industry thought leaders or transform and enhance their public image.

Brian earned his JD at Seton Hall University School of Law and his BA in Law & Policy at Dickinson College.

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Allison leverages her background in journalism to help guide clients through diverse media-related challenges. She crafts impactful statements and speeches for organizational leaders in crisis and provides media training to help clients mitigate reputational risks.

In addition to these services, Allison designs graphics and websites for clients as needed while offering strategic social media advice to enhance brand awareness. She has also spearheaded public relations campaigns for numerous New Jersey-based nonprofits and businesses.

Before joining Kessler PR Group, Allison was a senior reporter for a Monmouth County newspaper. In this role, she built strong relationships with community and political leaders and produced compelling, balanced articles, always respecting confidentiality.

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Allison leverages her background in journalism to help guide clients through diverse media-related challenges. She crafts impactful statements and speeches for organizational leaders in crisis and provides media training to help clients mitigate reputational risks.

In addition to these services, Allison designs graphics and websites for clients as needed while offering strategic social media advice to enhance brand awareness. She has also spearheaded public relations campaigns for numerous New Jersey-based nonprofits and businesses.

Before joining Kessler PR Group, Allison was a senior reporter for a Monmouth County newspaper. In this role, she built strong relationships with community and political leaders and produced compelling, balanced articles, always respecting confidentiality.

Allison holds a BA in Communications from Monmouth University.